What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life—to strengthen each other in all labour, to rest on each other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all pain, to be one with each other in silent unspeakable memories at the moment of the last parting?
Wedding readings
Wedding readings from novels
Prose readings for a ceremony when a poem does not feel right. Captain Wentworth's letter from Persuasion, Gabriel Oak's promise from Far from the Madding Crowd, Cathy on souls made of the same stuff, and George Eliot asking what greater thing there is for two souls than to be joined. Hardy's longer passage on comradeship is a favourite for couples who were friends first. All come from public domain novels and are copied word for word, so a reader can use them at a civil or religious ceremony.
How to use these
- Most registrars accept readings from novels at a civil ceremony; check with yours, since some ask for wording in advance.
- One prose reading of 60–120 words takes under a minute; that is usually plenty.
- Wuthering Heights is a stormy love story; some couples love that, others prefer Hardy or Eliot.
Theirs was that substantial affection which arises (if any arises at all) when the two who are thrown together begin first by knowing the rougher sides of each other’s character, and not the best till further on, the romance growing up in the interstices of a mass of hard prosaic reality. This good-fellowship—camaraderie—usually occurring through similarity of pursuits, is unfortunately seldom superadded to love between the sexes, because men and women associate, not in their labours, but in their pleasures merely. Where, however, happy circumstance permits its development, the compounded feeling proves itself to be the only love which is strong as death—that love which many waters cannot quench, nor the floods drown, beside which the passion usually called by the name is evanescent as steam.
And at home by the fire, whenever you look up, there I shall be—and whenever I look up there will be you.
You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight years and a half ago.
I have for the first time found what I can truly love—I have found you. You are my sympathy—my better self—my good angel.
Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same; and Linton’s is as different as a moonbeam from lightning, or frost from fire.
The supreme happiness of life consists in the conviction that one is loved; loved for one’s own sake—let us say rather, loved in spite of one’s self
Victor HugoLes Misérables, 1862 · Chapter IV
Translated by Isabel F. Hapgood (1887)
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Translated by Isabel F. Hapgood (1887)
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Love is the only ecstasy. All the rest weeps. To love, or to have loved,—this suffices. Demand nothing more. There is no other pearl to be found in the shadowy folds of life.
Victor HugoLes Misérables, 1862 · Chapter II
Translated by Isabel F. Hapgood (1887)
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Translated by Isabel F. Hapgood (1887)
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If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more. But you know what I am.
In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.
I am the happiest creature in the world. Perhaps other people have said so before, but no one with such justice.
Perhaps, after all, romance did not come into one’s life with pomp and blare, like a gay knight riding down; perhaps it crept to one’s side like an old friend through quiet ways; perhaps it revealed itself in seeming prose, until some sudden shaft of illumination flung athwart its pages betrayed the rhythm and the music, perhaps . . . perhaps . . . love unfolded naturally out of a beautiful friendship, as a golden-hearted rose slipping from its green sheath.
“There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart,” said she afterwards to herself. “There is nothing to be compared to it.”
Each time you happen to me all over again.
All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one; you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone.
Reader, I married him.
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